National Pickleball Day is celebrated each year on August 8th.  It is dedicated to celebrating the sport and its growing community. My husband and I now begin most mornings playing pickleball.  We were fortunate to find nearby courts and some folks willing to show us the basics.  After that, we became hooked on this popular sport.

We’ve seen many examples of kindness on the pickleball court. While playing doubles with people we had never met, I’ve observed the great number of positive comments, even when a ball goes far from where it was intended. And when winning a challenging volley, the accolades make you feel like you won a million dollars. It’s also about people sharing a kind word to opponents.  That’s what makes the game fun, and the world just a little bit better place to be.

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We’ve had some very challenging days in our country and our world recently. Good to keep this image in mind.

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When we see someone struggling in a wheelchair or notice a tear-streaked cheek, might it be wise to remember the song “There but for fortune may go you or I.”  Frequently performed by Joan Baez, it reflects on the thin line between different life outcomes.

Our current situation could easily change due to luck or circumstance.  Anyone could find themselves destitute when least expected.  Thinking about the randomness of life can encourage compassion towards those who may not have our good fortune.

Always be thankful, generous & kind.…
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When someone senses we have goodwill and respect for them, it enables them to lower their defenses and hear what we’re saying. It’s so easy to be positive with people who think like us, go out of their way for us, or simply agree with our ideas.  The challenge is when we disagree with someone’s beliefs.

Many of us are now struggling with not knowing what to do or say when confronted with people who have opposite viewpoints.  It’s helpful if others know we are trying to respect their opinion, yet are willing to stand up for our own values.

When someone responds to our comments with a kind word, we are more likely to keep focused on staying positive.  Kind words can deepen our connections and encourage respect.

Here are some examples of responses to disagreements using kindness:

“I am here to listen to anything you have to say.”…
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An Irish Blessing for all!

May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rain fall soft upon your fields,
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

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